Oh for crying out loud.
My son knows more about hockey than many who've played and he's complaining about the refs tonight (first time I've ever heard it from him). Playing hockey does not make someone an expert. Claiming you know more doesn't mean you actually do. And using the word "whining" also doesn't make you any better. Constantly stroking the refs'.....egos is ridiculous. They're not infallible.
It's not up to teams to "adjust to" reffing...that's bullshit.