Thing is, he may not even realize how out of touch some of his actions are. Whether it be that he's a narcissist or .... just stuck in the dark ages.
There was a time when you did whatever you had to...to get a gig in Hollywood, to get on the team, whatever. People with power and status exploited other people on the casting couch and behind closed doors. He's likely a product of that culture and has not shifted into the here and now.. It's no longer acceptable to cross lines of privacy and decency.
Dinosaur coaching and the days of bullying are numbered.