bettywhites44 Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 He's as strong as an ox...and ALMOST as smart! 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 6YPE Posted August 10 Popular Post Share Posted August 10 2 hours ago, smithers joe said: i can tell you , you will recover. i lost my wife to cancer 19 years ago. i'll never forget her, but it gets easier in time. I'm sorry for your loss, and thank you for the words. It is getting easier, slowly. I understand the process and have a fantastic support system around me which I am very thankful for, I honestly don't know what I would have done without them. This experience has changed me for the better and there have been huge changes in my life, I was her primary caregiver for 6+ months so I couldn't work, I've lost everything and have to start over, I'm ok with that, I mostly feel sad for what she had to go through, she never complained, was never angry and never said "Why me?" I just miss her..... 2 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captkirk888 Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 7 hours ago, Snoop Hogg said: So you suck when your bladder is empty? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Captkirk888 Posted August 10 Popular Post Share Posted August 10 3 hours ago, 6YPE said: A complete trainwreck. I lost my wife/best friend of 23 years to cancer in March. Watching her die and not being able to do anything about it was the most difficult/traumatic experience I've been through and I don`t know if I will ever recover. Much love to you brother. I lost my wife to cancer as well, 24 years ago. She was just 35. Together 15 years, married for 12, 2 kids. 2 years later and not really looking for love, I found it again. Married 21 years, 2 more kids. Again life gives us challenges, my second wife has struggled with Lyme Disease for years. We are now separated but are best friends still. 2 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6YPE Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 11 minutes ago, Captkirk888 said: Much love to you brother. I lost my wife to cancer as well, 24 years ago. She was just 35. Together 15 years, married for 12, 2 kids. 2 years later and not really looking for love, I found it again. Married 21 years, 2 more kids. Again life gives us challenges, my second wife has struggled with Lyme Disease for years. We are now separated but are best friends still. Thanks for sharing, it helps to hear other people's stories, I appreciate you 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Lock Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 8 hours ago, Pears said: My life summed up in a meme Honestly, at this point in my life... this is exactly me.... lol 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allegend Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Ups and Downs...like the Olympics. 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerridwen Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Doing my best to always find the cup at least half to three quarters full and find the joy in every moment despite life not always feeling very fair. (Sorry, Joe... I know it won't fit in those lines on application forms where it says "Title" but in all the time you've known me, have I EVER been able to say it in 2 words when 24 will do? ) 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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PureQuickness Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Immature start, but now trending upwards. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whaleroad Train Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Damn-That didn't work. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger Neilsons Towel Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Flawed Human “I’m not as good as I’m gonna get, but I’m better than I used to be.” - Tim McGraw 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrayDog Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Young me: Street Rat Current me: Still Trying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smithers joe Posted August 10 Author Share Posted August 10 11 hours ago, 6YPE said: I'm sorry for your loss, and thank you for the words. It is getting easier, slowly. I understand the process and have a fantastic support system around me which I am very thankful for, I honestly don't know what I would have done without them. This experience has changed me for the better and there have been huge changes in my life, I was her primary caregiver for 6+ months so I couldn't work, I've lost everything and have to start over, I'm ok with that, I mostly feel sad for what she had to go through, she never complained, was never angry and never said "Why me?" I just miss her..... this didn't help at the time but gave some me some peace later on. the day before my wife died, two friends came over and related this story. their daughter had given birth to a baby but was hemoraging inside. the ambulance raced her from smithers to a hospital in terrace. the parents went with her. as they raced along the daughter died. the paramedic, used the paddles and sparked life back into her. the daughter asked, where is my husband? they said, he is the the car following us. she said, no he's not, i was just back there and he wasn't there. then she died again. again the paramedic revived her. she asked, where was i just at? she said it was the most peaceful, wonderfull place she'ld ever been and she didn't want to come back. then she died again. she didn't come back. 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smithers joe Posted August 10 Author Share Posted August 10 9 hours ago, Cerridwen said: Doing my best to always find the cup at least half to three quarters full and find the joy in every moment despite life not always feeling very fair. (Sorry, Joe... I know it won't fit in those lines on application forms where it says "Title" but in all the time you've known me, have I EVER been able to say it in 2 words when 24 will do? ) it is all good, good heart. hearing people's stories, is like, medicine for the soul. thanks for answering. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smithers joe Posted August 10 Author Share Posted August 10 7 hours ago, Roger Neilsons Towel said: Flawed Human “I’m not as good as I’m gonna get, but I’m better than I used to be.” - Tim McGraw we are all flawed humans. i not sure, that when we leave this life, we are still not flawed in some ways. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sbriggs Posted August 10 Popular Post Share Posted August 10 On 8/9/2024 at 10:58 AM, Heretic said: Barely functioning trying to survive sexual abuse, raise a family and run a 24/7 business 55 yrs old 1 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spur1 Posted August 10 Share Posted August 10 Retired and tired. No fun getting old. 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smithers joe Posted August 12 Author Share Posted August 12 On 8/10/2024 at 4:46 PM, Spur1 said: Retired and tired. No fun getting old. i agree lad. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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